Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you,he moves different on his own. Life's too short to be waiting for someone to act right!
if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
all these nggas be doing fr is teaching you how to love yourself & to put yourself first. & it don’t be on purpose but every time they switch up, play w/you, or treat you in a way that you know you don't deserve, it forces you to tighten all the way up & choose yourself more & a lil harder. Then after some time, you will eventually stop being so impressed by anything that’s bare minimum energy, bc you learned the hard way what it costs to accept the bare minimum..
Unless a man sits you down and tells you straight up " I'm ready to be in a committed relationship, I want you to be my girlfriend." And you agree,then don't assume that you are. It doesn't matter what he does for you,how much you've given him or what you guys do together
the fact that women could have their nudes leaked and their whole career could potentially be destroyed but men could have a whole ass R@PE ALLEGATION but still be the president of the US... i never wanna hear y'all argue that gender inequality doesn't exist