‘Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fucked up’ is such a real ass statement because do men really think it’s entirely up to them ??
@allenanalysis Using a massive, globally streamed political platform as your ultimate cover story while forensic investigators are actively building a murder case against you is diabolical
You also have to keep at the back of your mind that if you allow yourself to be pressured into a life that doesn’t align with you, you’ll ultimately be the one paying the price for it. The people rushing you won’t live with the consequences, you will.
Black people really aren’t allowed to be shy. You could show signs of the worst social anxiety and people will still say you act that way because you think you’re better than the rest. It’s ridiculous 😭
I’ve never met someone who’s genuinely happy with their life, comfortable with themselves, and at peace with their surroundings go out of their way to be rude. more often than not, that kind of behaviour comes from people who are deeply unhappy and project their pain onto others. once you realise that, it becomes much easier not to take it personally.
Finances are a taboo topic for women but the only TRUE “soft life” you will ever have comes in the form of financial stability. You can get all the massages and do all the shopping but if your cortisol spikes every time rent is due or you have an emergency what is the point ?
i once heard someone say “if there are 12 Nazis in a room and they ask you to have dinner with them and you agree, then there are 13 Nazis in that room” and i think a lot of people fundamentally don’t understand that. but it’s 100% true.
let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. let them reintroduce their hobbies, dreams, and soul. familiarity shouldn't be a cage. love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.
We can agree to disagree, call out people actions when they’re wrong & share our opinions on the contestants. But also we still need to realize we are still witnessing young adults navigating a whole different environment that most people could never understand. Holding someone accountable is different than creating hate campaigns & piling on an individual you don’t even know in real life is just so sad to see. Remember we’re all humans 🤞🏼💕