Most marriages don't end over betrayal. They erode in small moments, both people angry at once, and neither willing to be the one who softens first. The Salaf understood this danger, and one Companion built his whole marriage around avoiding it.
Abū'd-Dardā' (رضي الله عنه) gave his wife Umm'd-Dardā' a single rule to live by:
«إذا غضبتُ فرضِّيني، وإذا غضبتِ رضَّيتُكِ، فإذا لم نكن هكذا ما أسرعَ ما نفترق»
"If I become angry, then win me back. And if you become angry, I will win you back. For if we are not like this, how quickly we would part."
Notice it runs both ways. He doesn't wait for her to repair things. He commits to being the one who mends it, and asks the same of her. Anger met with anger has only one ending.
Someone has to choose to fix it. Every time.
Ibn Ḥibbān in Rawḍat al-ʿUqalāʾ
Dogs are raped
Cats are raped
Bikini wearing women are raped
Hijab wearing women are raped
6 month old is raped
60 year old is raped
Saree wearing women are raped
Jeans wearing women are raped
Dead bodies are raped
The problem is clear - MEN