Delayed gratification is so important for recovering from burnout & healing the nervous system. Waiting until midday to check your phone, waiting a week to open packages, resets from social media, taking the longer route home after work, etc. Patience and slowness is grounding.
High standards because I don’t want my kids to grow up thinking love is yelling, cheating, ignoring, blocking, unblocking. Love should feel steady, not like survival
Women love sex just as much as men. However, a woman’s libido is almost entirely dependent on her psychological state.
If she feels safe with you, if she feels seen by you, if she feels desired by you, her sexual appetite will become even more insatiable than your own.
Having a naturally intimidating aura is so exhausting. People will go to the wildest extremes to humble me or compete with me. Meanwhile, I'm literally just trying to exist.