I don’t understand why everyone is so afraid of adult conversations. You don’t like me? Tell me. You don’t want to talk to me? Say so. You’re mad at me? Express your feelings. If I’m wrong, let’s talk about it. If we don’t agree, share your viewpoints.
It’s not that hard.
Maturing is coming to the realization that some people don’t outgrow their toxic patterns; they just find new people who will tolerate them, and fortunately for me, I am no longer one of those people.