always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth
i actually feel really sad when i see people my age who are so motivated and have such big goals and then there's me who can't even find a fucking reason to get up in the morning let alone set goals for my future