I'm just a girl โข ESP๐ช๐ธ/ENG๐บ๐ธ โข They/She โข 24 โข โง๏ธ ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Butch lesbian | lesbian ace-spec & poly โข i love my gfs โก
SA survivor โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
@gothtism444 god i feel this so deeply. when i dom someone i love to take care of them. it's like a person is under my responsibility. i ask questions, i communicate, i speak softly, i ensure they're comfortable. any degradation is rather mild from me, and only if the other person wants it!!
I'm a domme in the sense that I like giving my partner a sense of relief, comfort, appreciation, and safety that I never got to have, and my dom style never includes impact play or harsh words because I can't treat another person that way. I'm a domme because I'm maternal.
it still feels like i'm living outside my body. like none of this is real. it feels like the last several months have been... a weird dream. like part of my life was just... skipped
Female murderers will have the most horrific and devastating backstories for them to commit crimes on the same level as a man who was rejected once by a woman
Ok sure maybe this will help someone. How can you tell if your sexual partner (men get raped too) is consenting?
1. Look at their face. Do they look excited, interested, enthusiastic?
2. Are they responding (touching you back, kissing you back, talking to you)?
3. Do you have ANY reason to believe they are incapacitated (drugs, alcohol, medication, injury)?
4. Can they get away from you if they wish, and have you made it clear that they can do so safely should they want to (Uber, lift home, separate room/sofa)?
5. If you have ANY doubts or concerns about ANY of the above, have you stopped and asked?
โwomen who just had bad sex are claiming to have been raped so that theyโll receive better treatmentโ yes. all that great treatment you give rape victims. you treat them so kindly and with such privilege.
literally had to cancel my dentist's appointment today because 30 minutes earlier i started shivering at the idea of /anyone/ touching me while i couldn't move.
Iโll add this:
A kiss is not consent for sexual activity
A bikini is not consent
A naked body is not consent
Having sex once is not consent
Being in a romantic relationship is not consent
Dancing together is not consent
Sleeping next to someone is not consent
Last thing on this before I have a mental break: if you think women are convincing their friends that their bad sexual experience was rape when it wasnโt, youโre delusional. The only thing people are doing is educating about the nuances of consent to avoid future bad situations.