Ms. Malissia

Mentor of Feminine Authority, writer and
Founder of the Mistress Mindset Institute &
The Dominatrix Academy

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

The Art of Female Domınance is sacred to me.

After years of studying, experimenting, playing, integrating and mentoring,
I realize how precious conscious power exchange is.

But also,
How few honor it.
Or know the depth of it.

I work with women who have been in the industry for decades
And when they join The Domınatrıx Academy
They get the biggest breakthroughs
As if they were learning the craft for the first time.

BD|SM is alchemy.
It can be a spiritual practice.
It can be healing.
It can be self-improvment.

So why so many people play so shallow?

Or why do so many women reenact
The toxic masculinity
That has harmed them?

If we hold all the power,
We also hold the responsibility.
So we get to decide how to use that power
Intentionally.

I see Dommes play like they are the perpetrators.
As if they hate men and get to unleash that hatred
On those willing to take it..
Which is often people who already feel worthless.

So they use their weakness,
To step on them
Feeling elevated and powerful
When in fact, that is not real power.

Of course, we can play with degradation
In a fun and sexy way.
But how does the scene end?
Do you rebuild those you broke?

I feel called to speak on this subject
Because I witness harm being done
And toxicity spreading
To the point where new students
Believe this is what FəmDom should be.

The same way people who start having səx
Watch pɔrn for reference.

And the thing is,
It's not just the Domme's fault.
Many men seek this type of treatment.
But in my book,
You can come see me for what you want
But you will receive the medicine you actually need.

That is how I built a successful business
With real connections
And people who trust me and feel safe with me.
I respect the man behind the sub.

The scenes can take many turns
And go far and deep,
But I will tell them after:
'You really took a lot today, I am proud of you.'
Or, 'you really impressed me, this was harsh'.

I want them to feel more whole.
To own their shame.
Not more of a hole
Stretching their inner void
And capitalizing on it.

Can we honor the sacredness of the intimacy shared?
And raise the standards in this industry?
We get to make the rules.
The future of FəmDom is now.

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@SatineOfficiel 🥰😘

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

When I first started this account
it was for my persona (Mistress Malissia)
It was ALL ABOUT ME... or more so... all about Her.

The Brand was there to support my work as a Professional Dominatrix.

In 2021 I started offering Mentoring and classes very mildly. I then built my educational Brand: Mistress Mindset.

In 2022 I founded The Domınatrıx Academy under that Brand.

As I evolve and grow, so does my work.

Working with personas and archetypes is central to my study of power.

But my work is no longer about my persona, but the actual study of power and creating experiences for women to develop their feminine authority.

After hosting 2 grandiose events in Spain for the Graduation of the Academy students (The Mıstress Experience) I met a version of myself that is not only capable of creating immersive experiences but that this is what I crave to do more of.

This is what birthed HOUSE OF MISTRESS @ houseofmistress.official on Instagram.

The Authority Room was the first official event by House of Mistress.

And now, my educational platform where my philosophy and my method reside is The Mıstress Mindset Institute where we study power and develop our authentic feminine authority through curated events (online and in person).

Which is why I decided after all these years to change the username of this account to be aligned with where I currently am and where my work is moving towards.

You can now find me at @thestudyofpower

Thank you for being part of my journey!

Extraordinary things are coming 🍸

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

A secret ingredient that nobody talks about and nobody sees,
rhat can greatly influence your success.

Your private life may be personal but it is felt in public / in your brand.

This is what I would start with if I was beginning to build something where I have to sell my services.

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@cankole_ Thanks!

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

THANK YOU 30K FOLLOWERS!🍾

Today I would like to express my gratitude to all of you who have been with me on this wild journey of evolution, from Professional Dominatrix working internationally, to becoming a Mentor to Dommes all over the world, to running the Mistress Mindset Institute focused on the study of feminine power.

My work, my brand and my business have evolved alongside me.

I have had this account for 7 years and it has allowed my voice and my presence to reach men and women around the globe.

Some of you have been following me from the beginning and others are just discovering me now. Either way, each publication here holds an energy that anchors my beliefs and position around the Art of feminine Authority beyond domination.

BDSM and FemDom have been central to my work and journey; they allowed me to study power behind closed doors and to bridge the knowledge and wisdom acquired privately into the every life.

For the past year my focus has been to write my book and lead immersive experiences (online and in person) for women to explore their feminine authority and influence, develop their leadership, reclaim their personal power, build unshakeable confidence, own their desires and speak up with conviction and clarity, while training men to be high level servers at my curated events.

Power exchange and worship of the feminine will always be core to my work. And my work has always had immense impact on those that have had the chance to experience it.

But now, I get to create impact beyond play by allowing myself to grow beyond this industry while carrying with me the tools I learned and embodied.

Share in the comments the year you found me and something I shared that marked you and made you want to follow along.
Or a memory with me!

And stay tuned, I am only just beginning. 😈💋

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@FetishWeekend Merci! 🥰

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@ServiceSubmisiv Thank you dear 💋

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@_goddessdevina Thank You 🥰💋

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

Imagine entering a room meant to bring out your feminine authority.

A private space that breathes sovereignty.
Where you get a taste of what magnetic presence feels like, the kind that is undeniable.

Where the way you present and speak holds a vibration that raises your standards in the moment.

An experience meant to break down walls, fears, limitations and expand you into another level of power.

The kind you know you have access to, that you know you posses, but is held in containment...
Until that moment.

The Authority Room was an immersive intimate event that was curated to play out my teachings in real time.
In the flesh.

And it changed us all.

From the activities that pushed the edges of comfort to the opportunity to receive like a Queen, and be seen and listened to in ways that amplified the frequency of the voice, I can't believe how transformative it was.

Every experience I create, both in person and online, starts in my imagination.

A vision.

And after meeting with Catherine Robbe-Grillet and discussing her ceremonies, I realized that this is something we have in common.

At the center of it all, we want resonance with those involved, so we all experience the scene/ceremony within the same frame (and as the leader of it, you set the frame).

The Authority Room was infused with the essence of what is core to my work: it is all about female power.

And like a delicious perfume that smells long after you spray it, the souvenirs of this day will stay with us forever.

Because there is nothing like being present, in the room, feeling it in your body, to embody something on a cellular level.

This was the first time I host this event. And like everything that emerges since the beginning of the Mıstress Mindset Brand, the spectacular feedback is what makes me want to do it again.

Until then...

You can read about the experience in my last Substack Essay 'Authority begins where containment ends'.

https://t.co/MDktK2gDPZ…

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@FlorenceCardin 😍🙏🏻Merci 🤍

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

Today was The Authority Room.
This one was one for the books.

I really missed immersive experiences in the flesh.

It was sensational.

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

The Authority Room was an experience like no other I have ever hosted before. It was quite literally a Portal to Power. I am still bathing in the energy that was created.

[Florence Cardin 🍴Montréal 🍴 @FlorenceCardin]

Merci @Ms_Malissia

Quel événement fabuleux!

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@FlorenceCardin It was such a pleasure to meet you 🤍🌹

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@CrashTestObject It's actually a dress 😘

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@Lotuseros You would have LOVED it 💋

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@ava_vort I am so happy to know that 😌

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

The Art of Female Domınance is sacred to me.

After years of studying, experimenting, playing, integrating and mentoring,
I realize how precious conscious power exchange is.

But also,
How few honor it.
Or know the depth of it.

I work with women who have been in the industry for decades
And when they join The Domınatrıx Academy
They get the biggest breakthroughs
As if they were learning the craft for the first time.

BD|SM is alchemy.
It can be a spiritual practice.
It can be healing.
It can be self-improvment.

So why so many people play so shallow?

Or why do so many women reenact
The toxic masculinity
That has harmed them?

If we hold all the power,
We also hold the responsibility.
So we get to decide how to use that power
Intentionally.

I see Dommes play like they are the perpetrators.
As if they hate men and get to unleash that hatred
On those willing to take it..
Which is often people who already feel worthless.

So they use their weakness,
To step on them
Feeling elevated and powerful
When in fact, that is not real power.

Of course, we can play with degradation
In a fun and sexy way.
But how does the scene end?
Do you rebuild those you broke?

I feel called to speak on this subject
Because I witness harm being done
And toxicity spreading
To the point where new students
Believe this is what FəmDom should be.

The same way people who start having səx
Watch pɔrn for reference.

And the thing is,
It's not just the Domme's fault.
Many men seek this type of treatment.
But in my book,
You can come see me for what you want
But you will receive the medicine you actually need.

That is how I built a successful business
With real connections
And people who trust me and feel safe with me.
I respect the man behind the sub.

The scenes can take many turns
And go far and deep,
But I will tell them after:
'You really took a lot today, I am proud of you.'
Or, 'you really impressed me, this was harsh'.

I want them to feel more whole.
To own their shame.
Not more of a hole
Stretching their inner void
And capitalizing on it.

Can we honor the sacredness of the intimacy shared?
And raise the standards in this industry?
We get to make the rules.
The future of FəmDom is now.

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

Being in the presence of someone you look up to, respect, admire and know you can learn from, is enough to receive the transmission of what this person has to give you.

I am in deep gratitude for having had the chance to meet with Catherine Robbe-Grillet in her beautiful castle in France, to hear her stories and her take on certain themes and subjects I am exploring and writing about in my book.

My Mıstress Journey lead me to be here and meet with her. Regardless of everything we shared, that will be part of my own story.

I always lived my life this way, which is the reason I am the woman I am. I take risks, I bet on myself and I dare believe I can get where I want to go.

Thank you to the man who entrusted me with her address so I can send her the letter that ended up being a catalyst for this memorable encounter.

I will be sharing our interview on my substack next week.

Long live this legendary woman who is now 96 and still a world class powerhouse!

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

Today is the day!
In less than an hour I will be having tea with Catherine Robbe-Grillet interviewing her for my book.

I truly am the Mistress of manifestation 🤌🏻

[Ms. Malissia @thestudyofpower]

@Lotuseros @itsMistressSade Woahhh you two together 🥰