Ms. Malissia

Mentor of Feminine Authority, writer and
Founder of the Mistress Mindset Institute &
The Dominatrix Academy

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Imagine entering a room meant to bring out your feminine authority.

A private space that breathes sovereignty.
Where you get a taste of what magnetic presence feels like, the kind that is undeniable.

Where the way you present and speak holds a vibration that raises your standards in the moment.

An experience meant to break down walls, fears, limitations and expand you into another level of power.

The kind you know you have access to, that you know you posses, but is held in containment...
Until that moment.

The Authority Room was an immersive intimate event that was curated to play out my teachings in real time.
In the flesh.

And it changed us all.

From the activities that pushed the edges of comfort to the opportunity to receive like a Queen, and be seen and listened to in ways that amplified the frequency of the voice, I can't believe how transformative it was.

Every experience I create, both in person and online, starts in my imagination.

A vision.

And after meeting with Catherine Robbe-Grillet and discussing her ceremonies, I realized that this is something we have in common.

At the center of it all, we want resonance with those involved, so we all experience the scene/ceremony within the same frame (and as the leader of it, you set the frame).

The Authority Room was infused with the essence of what is core to my work: it is all about female power.

And like a delicious perfume that smells long after you spray it, the souvenirs of this day will stay with us forever.

Because there is nothing like being present, in the room, feeling it in your body, to embody something on a cellular level.

This was the first time I host this event. And like everything that emerges since the beginning of the Mıstress Mindset Brand, the spectacular feedback is what makes me want to do it again.

Until then...

You can read about the experience in my last Substack Essay 'Authority begins where containment ends'.

https://t.co/MDktK2gDPZ…

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This article introduces a core concept behind the book I am writing and the framework behind the Dominatrix Academy.

Paid subscribers can now join a private chat with direct access to me, so we can share groundbreaking conversations in parallel with my writing.

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Why is the word Mistress so taboo?

Let’s look into its masculine counterpart: Master.
Master is the most powerful word that exists.

Master of the universe; Master of a craft; Master of one’s destiny.

So how did the feminine of Master turn out to be representing the woman we want to hide, instead of simply being the Female Master?

It seems that there is a strong symbolic connection between the most powerful word for a woman being held secret and the way women are taught to hide their power.

Is it a coincidence that the word has suffered a similar fate to what women have experienced? I don’t think so.

For generations, women have been taught to play nice, to downplay or hide their wisdom, knowledge, confidence, sex appeal and ultimately conceal their power by fear of certain consequences. Being ‘too much’ or ‘too full of herself’ or labeled as a ‘bitch’ or a ‘whore’ are some of the reasons that keep the feminine energy compressed.

[Read the whole article on Substack]

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'The energy with which we build something is the energy it will hold'.
- Ms. Malissia

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@leskoridzic It is irrelevant as what I am sharing is my personal experience of surrendering to her and letting her dominate me.

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In 2019 I flew to NYC to be trained as a ProDomme by Rina Trevi.

This is the story of how this training ended up being a pivotal point of my Mistress Journey as I allowed her to dominate me in a consensual non-consent 2 week 'session'.

Since I started having some of my Essays paid, it unlocked my desire to share more personal, secret, vulnerable stories. And there will be also in-depth training and educational content coming soon.

I realized how much I personally learn from reading and that we don't always have the time to tune into videos or listen to trainings, but sitting down to read with our undivided attention forces our brain to relax and absorb what is being shared. An opportunity for deep learning, fast.

Given I already write daily, sharing uncensored material to those eager to learn from me is a blessing.

My exploration of power through surrender of control, trust and receivership led me to the inevitable place of having to share the story of my own experience with surrendering control and relinquished my power to someone I chose and trusted.

I am so grateful for the privilege I had to experience this with Rina and I am dedicated to continue passing on the torch of personal power through my own mentorship.

Read the full story here:
https://t.co/mMPe0V9Lr8

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Interesting. I actually vividly remember her retiring as she had told me when I met with her.
Mental breakdown? She had amazing clients and made the conscious decision to specialize in shibari and pursue BDSM as a healing practice instead of advertising in the sex work industry because of the expectations that came with being a 'service provider'. She understood and showed me what being a dominant beyond performance looks like, what it means to create genuine intimacy and hold space for people as they are exposed in their vulnerability.
This is what she loved and why she was so good at her craft.
To her, this was not just work and money and service topping. Which is why she left the industry.

I recently received an email from one of her clients who had a session with both of us when I was there during my mentoring. I remember all the sessions we had together and the one she led me through as well, so my experience tells me more than your interpretation of what she said without ever meeting her.

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In some way yes, but I think that the part where we 'surrender' to receive doesn't always happen in non-consensual pain / abuse. As it can cause the mind to dissociate, the body to tense and what is felt doesnt not 'penetrate' you in the way it would if you allow it from a place of desire.

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When we allow ourselves to RECEIVE
whether is it pain or pleasure...
We allow ourselves to be reached.
'Allowing' implies surrender to it.

And when we surrender to the experience we are receiving, we move from observing ourselves to inhabiting ourselves.

Both pleasure and pain bring us back to our body. In full presence of it. And the only way the pleasure or pain can become liberating is when we surrender to it.

As long as we are observers, we are disconnected from the experience... trying to control it. Whether by giving it meaning, analyzing it, trying to direct it where we want it to go.

And that way, staying in control keeps from from receiving.

(I speak here of consensual / desired pain).

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@mira_de_sire It's my trademark at this point 😄💋

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Time for some hair care 💁🏻‍♀️

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@SatanicLiving Oh you will then love to know what she shared with me during the interview 😉

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It is finally here!
The interview I conducted last June with Catherine Robbe-Grillet in France.
72 minutes. Unfiltered.
I came with questions and left with a revelation.

During our conversation Catherine shared how her wife Beverley (who was amongst us) asked her to submit to her. It was so aligned with how I myself got to be in that room with her.

And if you know my story and how I first started meeting clients as a Mıstress, you will find it even more special.

This month is Catherine's Birthday. She will be 96 years old next week. And sharing this now comes full circle.

The interview was conducted in French and there are subtitles both in english and french.

You will learn secret and spicy things both about me and her! And I also give you a detailed report of the whole experience around the interview... as an hommage to how she would report on her ceremonies, as she described it to me.

Enjoy 🤍
https://t.co/G09ZPrfqfQ

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@SatineOfficiel C'était un honneur de la rencontrer. 🤍

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@MistressAime New account: @ItsMistressAime

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Yesterday I directed a photoshoot in Montreal for the exquisite @mistressaime
🔥🔥🔥

Take a wicked mind with a stunning woman in a sensational place... you can imagine the magic that was created!

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@AlishaLioness 😘😘😘

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Ready for a special dinner for female founders in Montreal 🍸

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Speaking on stage about what makes the Dominatrix powerful for @FetishWeekend Montreal

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This Sunday I will be a Guest Speaker for Montreal Fetish weekend.
@FetishWeekend

Who is coming? 🫦

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@AlishaLioness @MistressDracul @leather_ava @LadyLola Thank You 🥰🙏🏻

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BDSM is not about doing something... it is about going to a place with established limits that free us of our own limitations.

Read this very raw piece I just published here:

https://t.co/k50snhJFPw