So many people stil don't understand that their partner's request for change is not asking them to change who they are, but to modify the PATTERNS that are hurting the RELATIONSHIP..
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" felt this to the core.
You will think you’re a good person until you fall in love/ enter a relationship. Then you’re stripped bare. Love confronts all of your insecurities, vices, weaknesses and tox!c traits. It shows you that you’re not that patient or kind. Not as forgiving or tolerant as you thought.