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"Don’t lose ur self holding on to someone tht doesn’t care about u"•thank God for everything•D(M)V•#LLNAE💜#LLdad💙•Ig~theyluv.asijah

[•🖤🥶• @theyyyluvimani]

Sometimes you have to play the fool to fool the fool who thinks they fooling u

[SKB @seyikanbai]

“ Marriage is something that makes you better as a Human being. It shouldn’t be about whether you really like this person, it’s about if the relationship makes you a better person. It’s supposed to bring out the hard times”

— Tems says 👀

[𝓢𝓱𝓪𝔂𝔂𝔂 🧚🏾‍♀️✨✨ @_iamhershayyy]

My goal right now is to just HEAL. Heal my heart. Heal my mind. Heal my soul. It’s time to fully get over the wrong that's been done to me, the pain I've endured, the trauma I've experienced, and anything that has happened to me that didn't sit right with me.

[Tems POV @temspov]

I will never get tired of posting this

This is therapy

[Art of Life 🦋 @Art0fLife_]

It always gets better.

[spicebae @spicebae_]

Tems said, "your love is not my lifeline, your love is not my home. returning you, you're not mine, to me, you don't belong, i'm better on my own, you're better when you're gone..." THIS IS R&B OMG �

[•🖤🥶• @theyyyluvimani]

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[𓆩♡𓆪 GODS FAVORITE 𓆩♡𓆪 @soulaaangel]

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[Gracious Onuoha @grayshurz]

BARE MINIMUM
• Opens the door
• Replies to your story
• Buys a gift after a fight
• Holds her bag when she's tired
• Asks if she ate or drank water
• Holds her hand in public
• Pulls the chair for her
PRINCESS TREATMENT
• Ties her shoes
• Breakfast in bed
• Gives her massages
• Tracks her periods & cravings
• Plans at least one surprise date night every month
• Takes candid pictures of her secretly

[solé @layxsnv]

My last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you!!! They're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't leave. Never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself first 💯

[Fem Mindset @fem_mindset]

Not just relationships, this applies to friendships and workplaces too💯

[goma @soigomaa]

Emotionally unavailable men will ruin you.
And I'm not saying that lightly. I'm saying it from a place of watching too many women with big hearts and soft souls break themselves trying to love men who simply can't love them back.
Stay away from men who think emotional connection is optional, who call you "too sensitive.
who make you feel like you're asking for too much simply because you want love that feels present intentional, and real. Because the truth is, no matter how loving, loyal, or patient you are you cannot pour into a man who's emotionally empty. it's about him. His fears.
His refusal to do the inner work.
You deserve someone who's available
Your softness, your empathy, they deserve a home in a man who's ready to receive, nurture and retur them. Don't waste your heart on a man who's numla to love.
Save your heart for someone who doesn't just want it but knows how to hold it.

[Fem Mindset @fem_mindset]

Never teach them you’re okay with less💯💯💯

[Kentah Gwanjez @GWANJEZ]

"Don't stay mad too long. Don't hurt yourself too bad."

[Fem Mindset @fem_mindset]

If you choose to leave, never come back saying “I miss you.”🔥🔥

[kas𓆩ꨄ︎𓆪 @urth2kas]

me coming out my room anytime i smell food:

[Talk Church @churchtalkative]

God's got you!