& youll never see those children grow up to become Adults who missed life opportunities cos they weren’t fluent or didn’t know setswana.. tota to each its own..
If You're pregnant right now or have a kid already, please don't let anybody make You think Your kid ruined Your life. Yes it's hard, yes there'll be sleepless nights, things might take a little longer to get together, but You can still do it with Your baby on Your back. I don't care what anybody says, I know a lot of people with Kids doing better than those without Kids. People like to make it seem like having Kids means Your life is over, but actually it's just getting started. Your Kid will make You wanna push to be better because You know You got a little one looking up to You. Kids are a blessing at the end of the day.
Kids spend 90% of their lives with their aunty & teachers at school when they mostly speak English, they get taught setswana ko sekolong & enjoy the lessons, why should i beat myself lenna hela ne ke pallwa ke diane le dithamalakane?? I am not even fluent in my native language Isindebele…. This is not 1980s
ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
Guys
My 3 year old slaps the he'll out of us,ke mo shapile and stuff. And it doesn't get better ,it's frustrating me now. Ke ipotsa gore o tsaa kae go betsa🥲
Adult friendships are so funny because you really just lose a friend on a random day after realizing you clearly don’t mean anything to this person, while at one point they meant the world to you.
Fortunately, this doesn’t change the price of bread, so good riddance and stuff🤘🏾
Bafazi, quick reminder, no one is bigger than the program. When it comes to men, don’t lose yourself. Don’t beat your chest for a man, and don’t drag other women down to prove a point. 🫵🏽