1. Ask for consent
2. Get lube and finger the hole with it
3. Put the tip with lots of lubes and slowly push, 20 times before you push in
4. Add more lube
5. Praise the person as you go in
6. Please don’t kiss them as you go in
A friend told me this is how you do it
Not over obsessing on protein
Training each muscle 3-4x a week
Doing cardio for heart health and conditioning
Getting 6-7 hours of sleep minimum
Being consistent
gay dating is so hard bc not only are you limited to 10% of the population, you then have to narrow that down to if they’re compatible sexually, then are they emotionally mature and available, then are you even attracted to them… every happy gay couple is a statistical anomaly
get a haircut every 2 weeks to stay sharp, wait 5 secs before answering the phone to control the rhythm, always arrive 15 mins early, stay away from free lunches, never talk about people who aren't in the room and when anger rises, wait 10 mins before reacting. these habits may look rigid but they're the hidden discipline of the elite.
Physical intimacy isn’t always about sex. Sometimes it’s about feeling less alone. It’s about finding comfort in someone’s presence, sharing quiet moments, and being reminded that you’re worthy of love, care, and affection.