Some of yall need to realize that yall are USERS. Yall don’t know how to be good friends, good partners, or good family members because you’re always looking for what you can get out of people. Yall take advantage of people’s kindness, love, resources, support, connections, etc.. instead of genuinely showing up for them!
Cutting people off for how they view you is actually incredibly valid. I have no dealings with people who view everything I say or do through a negative lens. That’s a huge waste of time.
Some people do just enough to make it look like they support you, so later they can say they were always there. They’re not really supporting you—they’re just making sure they don’t look like they weren’t.