@colonelkurtz99@kriss_kell19430 There’s a danger in completely externalizing the responsibility of that dynamic because when someone continues to say yes, to ask for more, to initiate contact, to appear enthusiastic it communicates consent.
@colonelkurtz99@kriss_kell19430 I heavily agree with this. If we build a narrative where “yes” might not actually mean “yes” in hindsight. It still communicates consent. So what does the other person, even if abusive, see? They see agreement. They see desire. They see someone participating.