Most people are not serious people.
They're not serious about their work, their relationships, or their own life.
Keep that in mind if you're the "serious person," because otherwise the actions of others will constantly surprise you.
The worst kind of woman is the one who pretends she's a good woman, but in reality she's a liar, a narcissist, and a manipulator.
Because the most dangerous women do not always look dangerous in the beginning.
They can be charming, warm, affectionate, supportive, everything you thought you wanted, and that is exactly why men miss the warning signs.
She studies what you need, your insecurities, your weaknesses, your dreams, the kind of woman you have always wanted. Then she becomes that woman long enough for you to lower your guard.
But once she feels secure, the mask starts slipping and she now goes rogue
And this is where many men get trapped.
They keep chasing the woman they met in the beginning, not realizing that version of her may have been the performance. Because manipulation rarely arrives looking ugly.
It usually arrives looking like exactly what you were hoping for.
Narcissists never apologize, they just rewrite the story to make themselves the victim. They’ll break you, then act broken. They’ll hurt you, then say you’re too sensitive. Accountability isn’t in their vocabulary, only blame, projection, and manipulation.
Some women will have a man who loves them, provides for them and gives them everything, yet still chase validation from other men. You can’t satisfy someone who needs constant outside attention.
Every girl wants a good man. Until that good man sets boundaries, doesn't tolerate disrespect, pushes you to be better and has self-respect. Now he's insecure and controlling.