Idk who needs to hear this. But gender roles donβt exist in gay relationships. You can be a top that cooks and cleans. And you can be a bottom that takes out the trash and change the car tires.
The mentality βIβm a bottom so I must submit to my topβ gone get you submitted to the bottom of the list. Men arenβt trying to take care of another grown man. Stand on your own two feet or stand alone. I hope this helps. π