i saw a tweet that said something along the lines of “don’t tell men about your past trauma or they’ll manipulate you with it” but honestly baby one day you’re gonna tell a man about all the awful shit that’s happened to you and he’s gonna show you the opposite, every single day.
you deserve someone who treats you right the first time, someone who shows love without you having to ask, someone who keeps their word without you having to remind them, someone who pursues YOU selflessly. don’t let anyone guilt you into settling