Let's continue the thread:
6) You say you want a traditional man, but you don't want to be a traditional woman.
You want a man who provides, protects, leads, pays the bills and takes responsibility. But when he expects cooperation, respect, consideration or certain traditional responsibilities in return, suddenly you're an independent woman who cannot be told what to do.
Are you looking for a traditional marriage or a customised arrangement where you enjoy all the benefits of traditionalism without accepting any of its responsibilities?
7) You say you don't need a man, but you keep measuring men by what they can do for you.
You insist you're self-sufficient, independent and perfectly capable of taking care of yourself.
Yet your dating checklist revolves around how much a man earns, what he owns, where he can take you, what he can buy you and how much financial security he can provide.
There is nothing wrong with wanting a financially stable partner. But let's be intellectually honest, if you don't need a man, why does his financial capacity determine whether he's worthy of your attention?
8) You say men are intimidated by successful women, but you reject men who earn less than you.
You complain that men cannot handle a woman's success, yet you openly admit that you wouldn't date a man who earns less than you.
So is the problem really that men are intimidated by successful women, or that some women are unwilling to date men who don't meet their financial expectations?
You cannot demand that men overlook financial differences while insisting that they must meet yours.
9) You say you want a man who loves you for who you are, but you want him to prove that love financially.
You say money cannot buy love, yet you measure a man's affection by the money he spends, the gifts he buys, the dates he organises and the bills he pays.
If he spends less, he doesn't love you enough. If he spends more, he's intentional.
At what point does love become a genuine emotional connection rather than a financial performance that a man must continually maintain to retain your affection?
10) You say men should be confident enough to approach you, but you ridicule the men who actually approach you.
You complain that good men don't approach women anymore.
But when an ordinary-looking man approaches, he's too short, too broke, too ugly or not on your level.
You cannot simultaneously complain about the absence of approaches and ridicule people for having the courage to approach you.
Perhaps the issue isn't that men have stopped approaching. Perhaps the issue is that you only want approaches from a very specific category of men.
@Wizarab10@Mazi_Obika βa 19 years old girl and a 19 years old boy are not the same ageβ but all of a sudden a 30 years old woman and a 30 years old man are the same age to them, and want the 30 plus men to date 30 plus women and avoid 19 years old girls that are supposedly older than 19 years old boy
@Wizarab10 Women want benefits and modern privileges, without understanding the contradictions in their expectations. They know what they want let's be honest about it, they just expect men to follow rules they don't apply to themselves.
A year ago this young officer stood his ground and shamed the shameless.
A true gentle man and warrior.
I hope life is treating you well wherever you are, because you deserve it and more.
@Wizarab10 Now I know why God asked women to be quiet in Churches and ask their husbands at home and why He told them to submit to a man.
I understand why now
@Wizarab10 We wouldn't be having this conversation if simps can be brutal just like the whores they date and get married to every Saturday......... Nigerian simps just can't be saved.
@Wizarab10 All these things you dey talk, I still have to school one Nigerian man that no lady is above his level the werey and even said he would advice his son not to date women above his level
Nigerian men are the issues biko
Let's start educating them
Leave these women fess
@Wizarab10 You call it βhelpβ when you pay bills. You get mad when the man calls it βhelpβ when it comes to childcare.
βItβs your child!β
Is the house not also your house?!
Very unserious.