Raphael Ebikefe

Deep Thinker . Management Consultant . Author . Proudly Ijaw

[Raphael Ebikefe @thoughts86756]

Polygamy or having kids from different women is setting up your blood against your blood.

If you like write your will, you can't curb the animosity that brews and keeps brewing, especially after the man's demise. It's way better to marry one wife.

[Raphael Ebikefe @thoughts86756]

@jon_d_doee This is a very good way to avoid polygamy. A lot of men from our father's era got things wrong and situations their mistakes created have done so much damage.

Families being torn apart, and siblings can never vibe for any reason. I wish families enjoy more love than hate.

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@jon_d_doe How did you even finish ND and HND with this kind of poor writing?

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@jon_d_doe You are struggling financially and your utmost priority is finding love from a GenZ girl.

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When I take a look at myself, I know God is real.

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@_falsi1ke This won't work in modern day Nigeria.

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@jon_d_doe How it should be. Not the one that one partner is waiting for the other to send a message first.

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@Mikeliberation The truth is she will never marry that guy. She will only keep him for knacks.

When women have what they truly need, they no longer commit for the long term.

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Life has a way of reminding us that no one truly thrives alone. In uncertain times, like the challenges unfolding in South Africa, the value of relationships becomes clear—because when the storms come, it is not the island that saves you, but the bridges you've built to others.

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@jon_d_doe This is exactly the reason most men lose interest even before the proper relationship even starts.

As long as he is a person you just met, he has no business knowing the financial issues you have indirectly. Assuming you didn't meet him won't you fix your phone screen?

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Women when unmarried always keep their options open even while with you.

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@jon_d_doee Having read your post, it will be unwise to start a relationship with someone that is not yet working or doing something. You aren't even stable financially.

Please channel your energy in gaining mastery of your craft or skill and becoming stable financially before dating.

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@HeartMattaz Congratulations

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@DearS_o_n Amen

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@jon_d_doe Sometimes, I wonder what women want. Your husband sleeps with you well, satisfies you and sometimes you squirt but because he doesn't give you head, you now feel unfulfilled.

Madam you don't have any problem. Don't create issues where none exists.

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@Wizarab10 Exactly, because I don't know where we got all these rules & regulations from. The family belongs to both parties and so the responsibilities are meant to be collective.

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@jon_d_doe Agba a lot of ladies won't do this because most of them are dating more than one guy.

They rather run a discreet background check to see if he is married rather than announce him to the world when he hasn't proposed marriage yet. It is after the proposal they let the cat out.

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Can we just peacefully agree that life's script can never be the same for everyone. Trust God, appreciate your journey and trust the process.

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@boldpreciouss @Wizarab10 Such a sad story. Don't worry a better man will come by.

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@jon_d_doe Bro, Agba has given you insights you shouldn't ignore. I know it will be hard for you to accept but certain realities are meant for you to embrace and work on.

You're still young, so you can definitely get another shot at marriage and get it right this time. All the best.