Your relationship to your mother and/or motherhood doesn’t have to be black and white.
You can grieve and be proud of your growth. You can have compassion and understanding and still want accountability. You can love and still keep your distance.
It’s okay to feel it all.
Show up with grace for the person you are today, rather than pressuring yourself needlessly to be someone or something that doesn’t fit anymore.
Be in your life now.
Intense emotions are not a barrier to a meaningful, value driven life. They can be welcomed as simply a part of your lived experience. Be willing to accept and sit with discomfort of all intensities. You just might notice that the feelings don’t last forever 🤎
When you treat your intense feelings as a “problem” to be fixed, rather than part of a natural human response to your fears, you develop a relationship with your anxiety that feels tense and hostile.
It’s true that intense anxiety and emotions can feel overwhelming and hard to control.
Here’s another perspective: we need the capacity to feel intensely to keep ourselves safe when we’re in danger, or in order for our body to know when things don’t feel right.
If you’re anxious, try this affirmation:
I embrace my anxiety as a tool for self curiosity. I practice setting that tool down when it is no longer useful.
Rejection is re-direction.
Remember that you get to decide how you want to move forward. Name the feelings, process your reaction to the rejection and allow yourself grace as you take the next step.
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"We can't embrace the joy of feeling seen if we don't let ourselves experience the discomfort of vulnerability.
You deserve to be known." – Meghan Watson (@thrive_withmeg)
Trust yourself to pursue change and personal healing. Acknowledge that some emotional unraveling may happen. Real change takes time. You can do hard things.
Facing our resentments, difficult upbringings, grief, and tough emotions is hard work. Confronting this work can be overwhelming, and hard choices will need to be made.