Bulan lalu, salah satu rekan kerja bilang "kamu mau omonganmu dijabah Tuhan? Kenapa sih enggak mau nikah? Kan enak punya anak". Aku jawab "karena saya enggak mau menjadi orang tua yang setiap hari mengeluhkan kenapa anak saya begini dan begitu seperti Anda". Kemudian dia diam
My therapist told me that this is normal and that you can't rely on your youthful energy to drive your motivation forever. You have to find another source of power from within.
Aku sangat-sangat suka sama lagu-lagu SORE, tapi aku gak bisa menormalisasi apa yang udah terjadi. Stop dengerin playlist Biru Merah yaa temen-temen :((((((((( isinya SORE semuaa :((((((
It’s kinda funny we got two horrors flicks of male protagonist who rather live in personal hells and diluted themselves into thinking they have no flaws. Only to learn their lesson and die because it was too late for them while the women are left traumatized by their actions.
duh capek gak sih guys kejer karir... kyk.. sometimes... i just want to be HUMAN
aku mau main petak umpet, mau barter ubi hasil kebunku sm mangga tetangga, mau belajar bikin pottery...
why are all glorifying growing into.. pencetak uang.. is money really all that matters :/
Abis baca (lupa dimana) kalo terlalu mengaitkan value diri sama hal konkrit (kayak hobi, pekerjaan, peran) itu membuat sense of self jadi lemah.
Dianjurkan untuk mengaitkan personality sama value yang lebih abstrak dan kuat (kayak integritas, keterbukaan, kejujuran).
Never apologize for buying another book, even if your shelves are already overflowing. Readers collect lives, dreams, wisdom, and memories that only grow richer each time they return to them.
as someone who does pilates for the sake of my scoliosis, i hate that pilates become a feminine expensive pink princess symbol whatever meanwhile joseph pilates invented pilates for rehabilitation purposes, i hate how capitalism changed the perspective
i am a horrible friend, and i am aware of this; i ignore messages, i barely reach out, i do not open up about my feelings or experiences, i do not know how to comfort, react to their pain or empathise with them; i am avoidant and push them away.. just to whine about it later