You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.
I think - Pharmacies understand that what goes into a woman’s body and whether she wants to carry a baby or not should be entirely up to her. Also, history generally shows: anything a man touches that has to do with a woman, they ruin. They don’t need logic, they don’t a reason.
I will never understand why Pharmacies don’t want to sell us Morning After Pills if the woman is not present. Like what can I possibly do with the pill? Smoke it? Just sell us the damn thing and stop asking us questions.
I dumped him and blocked him too.
But before I did, I made sure to tell him the truth:
his mother had five children out of wedlock, all from different fathers, before marrying her current husband. Atleast mine have one father.
Some men really do forget too easily. 😭😭😭😭
The fact that this Polygamyst thing didn’t trigger a single childhood trauma is such a blessing. Reading people’s takes and I just realized I owe my dad even more respect. He was and still continues being a good father and husband to my mom ❤️
After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.