I never understood “using” men solely for things like vacations/dinners/experiences because doing anything with a man I don’t like sounds like my person version of hell lmao
I’m all for saving and planning ahead for the unforeseen future right… mara some of ya’ll are soo obsessed with retirement, le tlo phela neng? When will you tick off those bucket list items? Drive those dream cars? Live soft and satisfy your hearts desires? At 65???
My mum. She’s never insulted me in her life before.
If I broke the plate, she goes “who’s the blessed child that broke this plate?”
Never ever said one bad word to her kids.