thuli zama

❤

[☡ @jayjaysaysit]

Some people are mean and bitter bc they had a rough childhood... some people are kind and caring for the same reason. The choice is yours.

[Resko★ @Bloke_Baz]

“If you love me, consider me in your choices not your apologies.”

[Hlayisani Maluleke ☠️ @MsHlayisani24]

I'm like Thando "OH"! 👀 Sis will never change 😆 🤣

[nonie_nonz @nonz_nonie]

Yooh!! 😳😳

[ISHMAEL 🏴‍☠️☠️🇿🇦🇨🇩🇵🇸 @mr_shimmy]

This lady created a WhatsApp group for all her boyfriends to call them to order because they have been behaving like bitches lately, I Stan a Queen 👸🏾 . 🙆🏾‍♂️😂😂😂😂😂

[L E S E D I @_Hybreed_]

“This stays between us”

Ko majiteng:

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

I used to buy those cheap sunglasses from the roadside all the time and always thought, "What's the point of buying expensive ones? I'm going to loose them anyway." Then one day, I gathered the courage and bought an expensive sunglasses. And guess what? I still have them. I've taken care of them ever since.
That's when I realized those cheap sunglasses weren't getting lost because they were cheap? They were getting lost because I didn't value them enough to care. It's hard to accept, but sometimes in someone else's story, you are that cheap pair of sunglasses.

[𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐚 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐞 @tsitsiii_t]

They will know me well

[The woman @Tarmeim]

When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.

[•Mel•🏂 @DrMel_]

Threatening to break up
Silent treatment
Blocking and deleting texts
Moving from 0 - 100 real quick

All traits of someone with disorganized attachment style.. Everything they’re doing isn’t about you, it’s in a bid to regulate their nervous system cos they’re triggered.

Because communication feels like vulnerability, cos there’s a chance of rejection, they avoid it. Instead they do all these funny gimmicks to gain back control of their nervous system. It’s pathetic and trust me, you can’t change such a person

[Massimo @Rainmaker1973]

Visual representation of someone pretending to help whilst causing pain.

[Out of Context Human Race @NoContextHumans]

No words needed.

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.

[MaChamane @yayasc]

an acquaintance actually told me about this, when i relayed the silent treatment i was getting from umfana. it’s such an insane thing abafana do, where kungaxatshenwe and kungonakele lutho; but abasanendaba nawe nje. bazobuya uma bebuya but don’t hold your breath.

[Ade omo Ade 👑 01 @educatedtug01]

“We don’t have to talk every day”….. A man who doesn’t like you.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

According to psychology, even though avoidants may appear to move on fast, they usually don't move on emotionally that quickly. They compartmentalize. They distract themselves. They convince themselves the relationship had to end. They suppress emotions instead of processing them. But unresolved feelings don't just disappear. They get buried beneath distance, routine, distractions, and emotional shutdown. And sometimes those emotions resurface much later when the silence finally catches up to them.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

As independent as i am, i love to be babied 🥺. Acts of service are how i feel loved. I don't care about money, just lighten my load. I'm too prideful to ask for help 😭, but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, i kno you really see me 🤎

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.