I don’t think people realize how peaceful it is to just come home, tidy up your space, cook a good meal, take a shower and just focus on your own life.
Clarifying things so the other person doesn't overthink is also a form of emotional responsibility. Reassurance is a love language that doesn't get talked about enough.
People avoiding me after they’ve done me dirty is exactly what I expect. I don’t require closure. I get it. You’re a cowardly weasel. You were a weasel when you did it, you will likely respond to the situation as a weasel would.
Normalize not reaching out to a man who hasn't replied to a text or returned a call in hours or days. They kno they haven't spoken to u & it's bc they don't want to. They're aware you're a good woman, they just don't care. If they wanted to be around, they would make it happen!!!