I know this is gonna ruffle a lot of feathers, but having an abortion when you're not ready for children is one of the most responsible, least cruel choices you can make.
People being pressured into sexual acts they don't enjoy to please someone else is a real, common problem. I wish we were talking about that and not "anal ruins your body. it will make you SHIT YOURSELF forever. it is a gross debasement of all that is female and natural"
isn’t it crazy how many parts of transition we’re just not allowed to talk about bc like half of the community thinks they’re just made up and would rather say we’re lying and setting the trans community back years than believe that HRT can have effects that are under researched
dude that I vaguely flirted with a year and a half ago hard launching his new relationship has me downloading Bumble as if there'll be anyone on there that isn't already on Tinder and Hinge.
Idc if a man identifies as a feminist & can say all the best talking points. I care if that man washes dishes, takes on domestic labor, & doesn’t suck the life force out of every non-man they encounter. Too many “feminist” men are still patriarchs in practice.
It is crazy to me (in the best way) that I'm on the list for bottom surgery?????? (That list is years long... I won't be surprised if I end up paying out of pocket in a few years as I did with top surgery)
2025 year recap
jan - don't remember
feb - don't remember
mar - don't remember
april - don't remember
may - don't remember
june - don't remember
july - don't remember
aug - don't remember
sept - don't remember
oct - don't remember
nov - don't remember
dec - heated rivalry
Like they have the ability to take away my license by saying that I'm too sleepy to drive and the test to figure out why and how to treat it is almost $2g????
After 15+ years of trying, I have finally convinced a doctor to let me take a sleep study to see why I can't stay awake during the day. Tell me why the test is $1700.
the truth is that if you:
1- start HRT
2- allow yourself to embrace the internal journey of growth through self discovery
3- seek only to compare yourself to the past self you were decidedly uncomfortable with
you will find a happiness you can make peace with