@d76639020@sorrowblck ) and therefore not only hating femininity (and women whom they associate it with) but also associating it with negative, stereotypical traits (as i mentioned above)? i'm not sure what you're trying to say
@d76639020@sorrowblck this discussion isn't about how realistic or unrealistic bl is, it's about how a lot of people who shit on feminine bottoms seem to have issues that go much deeper than "judging [their] appearance" and rather are them being quite misogynistic (whether consciously or unconsciously
one small pet peeve i have is cat boys wagging their tail when happy, when really that's just the case for dogs and a cat avidly wagging is usually not a good sign 😭