Timeline Dating

❤︎ For those ready for forever, not "eventually." App waitlist open. Work with the founder ↓

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Many women don't need another dating app yet. They need a strategy.
While we build the best way to find forever, I'm working with a few founding clients directly: 90-minute session, personalized 90-day plan, built around your actual timeline.

5 spots.

https://t.co/Z5EV93UdZs

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

A Note From The Founder ❤︎

My motivation for building Timeline Dating and growing a community of thoughtful daters is both personal and research-backed.

I know what it's like to realize later in life that marriage and family matter deeply to you, whether that's a new clarity or something you've wanted all along. I also know the heartbreak of watching friends invest years in relationships that were never going to get there.

But here's what research confirms: couples who discuss relationship goals and timelines early report higher satisfaction, stronger commitment, and faster progress toward serious partnerships. Early clarity reduces ambiguity and builds trust.

I met my husband at 31, married a few years later, and we have a baby on the way. It can work out, even when it feels late. But I believe you deserve to know if someone shares your vision before investing your time and heart.

For those of you who are ready now, whether you've deprioritized marriage and family for years and are now ready, or you've been ready all along but keep meeting the wrong people, you're not alone. I'm building for you.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

update: husband showed me how to create an apple shortcut 😇 so now it auto records upon opening it with Siri yeehaw

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

@meetgranola tactical chat with my husband tonight and a few minutes in, “oh shoot, we should be granola-ing this”

is that the proper verb or do y’all have something more catchy I can use?

would also love the voice support to start a recording via Siri - currently the most I can do is start the app itself but not start recording. 🤍

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Love the point about energy and doing the internal work! Ladies ✍️

[Maya Agnihotri @mayarox5]

It’s funny because when I was doing matchmaking I’d receive messages like this all the time.

Absolutely no hate to Brooke btw - valid list. I just think it’s very interesting how we all create these buckets in our heads of tangible qualities we’re looking for from non-negotiables, to nice-to-haves, etc.

For example, I always had these preconceived notions about “my type” (white tech bro - historically at least lol), but my current boyfriend is neither of these things.

This goes back to why I’ve always been a hater of AI dating apps. The AI isn’t the problem, in fact the AI is good, far better algorithmically than a human matchmaker ever could be.

The problem is the data. We think we know ourselves, but we don’t. We don’t know what we ourselves bring to the table - tangibly & intangibly. And we think we know what we want, but we also don’t.

There are far more intangibles that go into compatibility that cannot be compartmentalized into a list or an AI dating profile. And it’s very uncomfortable and rare for someone to be introspective enough to actually know their own preferences.

Energy is a big one - I used to be a ball of stress, very much in my masculine energy, living in a scarcity mindset, partying to blow off steam. The qualities I wanted in a man were probably the same then as they are now, but I was in no position to attract the partner I wanted because it was a mismatch to the energy I was putting out into the world.

Instead of seeking a dream partner, it’s worth doing the uncomfortable work of looking inwards and learning about yourself and your energy and becoming your dream version of yourself first. And then trusting that that in itself will allow attract your dream partner.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

@signulll While You Were Sleeping with Sandra Bullock - one of my favorites of all time. Aged well from 1995

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

“Being direct is not desperation.”

“Having standards is not pressure.”

Couldn’t have said it better!

Date like Anna 👇🏻 https://t.co/5reR9aejZg

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Thank you for sharing your story. This is exactly why we’re building https://t.co/6l38GuA0xo - so you know each other’s marriage and family intentions before you even match.

No hate to the guy who got up in arms, he can be on whatever pace he wants.

But with a reaction like that, he shouldn’t be in the pool of eligible daters with a woman prepared to discuss the future from the jump.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

@_nicolealonso We love to see it 🤍

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Sounds like @brookeleblanc is ready for forever. Who else? 🤍

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@TWOTIMESABITCH who’s ready to get married?

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@Alecco

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@_Rohan__mehta yep

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

A Note From The Founder ❤︎

My motivation for building Timeline Dating and growing a community of thoughtful daters is both personal and research-backed.

I know what it's like to realize later in life that marriage and family matter deeply to you, whether that's a new clarity or something you've wanted all along. I also know the heartbreak of watching friends invest years in relationships that were never going to get there.

But here's what research confirms: couples who discuss relationship goals and timelines early report higher satisfaction, stronger commitment, and faster progress toward serious partnerships. Early clarity reduces ambiguity and builds trust.

I met my husband at 31, married a few years later, and we have a baby on the way. It can work out, even when it feels late. But I believe you deserve to know if someone shares your vision before investing your time and heart.

For those of you who are ready now, whether you've deprioritized marriage and family for years and are now ready, or you've been ready all along but keep meeting the wrong people, you're not alone. I'm building for you.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

@nehapatelzf Exactly ❤️

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Take the Timeline Dating Type quiz: https://t.co/OOsSwyy3jD

Share your results and drop your type in the comments!

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

what are some good timelines for someone just getting into dating?

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Underrated but so important. Recommended reading: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. The second agreement is “Don’t take anything personally” - this framing works great. I can pause before reacting and be more thoughtful in my responses, realizing everyone’s got their own story/reasons.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Solid analogy, but it’s a bit incomplete since easy apply/swiping only goes as far as getting a “match” - the real work of whether anything comes of it is what you do after. If you’re unprepared and bomb interviews over and over, it doesn’t matter where you found or applied for the gig originally.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

Great points. Both perspectives have merit. In support of OPs sentiment, a lot of dating app culture is debase and contrary to genuine connection. Discouragement and disillusion and broken spirits are legit issues. But rationally in terms of proactivity and exposure, you’d think success likelihood is higher if you put yourself out there on apps. I think it’s both - you have to do a little work beforehand to know what you’re after and apps need to promote and require meaningful transparency (especially on marriage and family goals) for good results.

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

I’ve seen dating apps push some of my friends further away from finding their person, so I feel you. There’s not just one way though, and I met my husband on Hinge so of course I’ve got some bias.

Our theory, backed by research, is that going in with more intentional and stated longer term aims is a success predictor. Contrast that with the norm in dating app culture, where the emphasis is on being open ended/non-chalant/“chill” which cultivates chaos, disappointment, and pain.

Any feedback on our concept or how we could align with your vision for genuine connections?

[Timeline Dating @timelinedating]

@justabdulraouf @ellaaborating Would love your take on our different approach - any feedback for how we could serve your goals? A lot of apps seem to distract people from what they’re truly seeking but with timeline, intentionality and thoughtful dating for the long term is the standard, not optional