Nothing I hate more than this coined “Situationship tag” ..
if you’re beginning to talk to me more than normal .. I always ask where this is headed ..and almost immediately I get my response on if I’m wasting my time or not
Confidence grows from being who you say you are and doing what you say you will do. When you consistently blow your own mind, you become untouchable in a way that is disgustingly insufferable (to people who are not you) but you must NOT stop
I don’t have the language for this yet, but cerebrally, I know that how much I allow myself show interest in someone romantically depends a great deal on how consistently intense they’ve made it clear that they’re interested in me. Definitely not an initiator, do not care to be.
@ChimdiIbeawuchi I have the same problem. My brain races ahead of my mouth, so my mouth sometimes skip words because my brain already ‘said’ them in my head.
In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you.
Many men will love the IDEA of you. Especially if you look good.
However, many of them will lack the capacity to deal with the depth of who you truly are within.
This is why attention from men means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
It's all about their true intentions for the REAL you!
Thank God I don’t have to wait for someone’s reply for hours, to get reassurance, to beg for attention, to wear someone’s favorite color, to wait for a ‘goodnight’ text before falling asleep, ruin my mood bc of someone treating me with their own convenience. Nobody gets to drain my energy and distract me at work.
Life is tough but atleast I don't face all of these anymore 🤌🏻
A good time to mention that humans possess various forms of intelligence, some lean into spatial Intelligence (images) more than others which usually translates to being a cinephile.
That a person doesn’t like or appreciate the movies you like doesn’t me they aren’t intelligent.