Martina Mckoy

Wife & Mother 💋💍 $tinajmckoy

12/02/2017 H.A.M 👼💛
05/05/2019 S.L.M 💕 04/05/2025 A.K.M
#MothertoanAngel #NicuMama

[Martina Mckoy @tinajmckoy]

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[fàgó @Fago9ere]

How your partner reacts to your sadness & things that bother you should tell you all you need to know

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

In a relationship, you can't just do whatever you want. You have to always think about the other person. And that's what a lot of people don't understand. Too many people want the benefits of partnership without the responsibility. They want someone to come home to but freedom to do whatever. They want loyalty but refuse to be accountable. They want commitment but don't want to compromise. That's not a relationship, that's selfishness.

[LALa Milan @_Milanmulaa]

Ladies you gotta make a ngga wish they never played in yo face or dogged you out! Removing a ngga access to you is the real flex 🥳 nggas rlly be thinking they got it like that!!

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

"they're still ur family" doesn't work on me. being related to me will never be a free pass to disrespect, manipulate, or mistreat me

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

It is a beautiful feeling when you finally connect with someone who truly values you and reminds you how you deserve to be loved. Safe spaces are everything.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

Heavy on the "Thank you God" & not for materialistic or tangible things but for always making a way for me, for always keeping my head above water, and for always counting me in when people thought they had the power to count me out!!

[Martina Mckoy @tinajmckoy]

Whewwww the growth…..😮‍💨

[Nevaeh🫶🏾🥵 @AyahBryson22]

People will take you for granted, then realize you were rare

[Yana🌸 @yanaaszn_]

Adulthood is realizing you always have a choice: leave. Leave the relationship. Leave the job. Leave the conversation. Leave the party. Protect your peace, and go where you feel better.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.

[𝓡𝓮𝓷 🍃 @whotfisren]

No one is overreacting. We all have different levels of sensitivity. If it hurts, it hurts. no explanation needed.

[Altine Kasire @altinekasre1]

Can we normalize praying, “God, protect me from the version of myself that appears when I'm tired, hurt, and running on empty?”

[𝓢𝓱𝓪𝔂𝔂𝔂 🧚🏾‍♀️✨✨ @_iamhershayyy]

The fact that i survived seasons where my income wasn’t enough but my needs were still met will always be proof that God came through for me !

[¥ @laylanaiim]

People act like it's a crime to not want to be bothered. Yes, I'm on my phone no l don't wanna talk or text. And I DONT HAVE TO. I don't have to answer my phone & I don't have to explain why. Normalize just letting people be.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

At some point you gotta tell people I got love for you, but I can't stay attached to you nomo. It ain't even personal and I'm not asking you to change. I just know what I'm trying to build and I know what I can't keep being around. So I'm getting out the way with no argument and no speeches. Love still there, the access just not.

[✨BLOCKIANA✨ @Big_Dreez89]

I do not play about people telling my business ! I don’t care if you told someone I have a trip coming up or what I ate for breakfast ! I won’t tell you anything else ! I don’t like a person who talk too much about what I got going on !

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth

[kei 🍀 @lunaspecs_]

She’s right. In the same breath, I think a lot of the older gens hold on to people too long for the sake of history.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

The sooner y'all realize you don't have to put up with anything you don't want to life will be soooo much better

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

Rihanna sharing a quote that said “the moment you start hiding your emotions to avoid arguments, you begin losing the bond that once made you feel like home” and the shit is real asf.