Someone can be extremely emotionally intelligent in the beginning of a connection and profoundly underdeveloped in what comes after. The maintenance is where unhealed people drop off.
self-sabotage is also
• not asking for help
• rejecting praise
• isolating yourself when hurt
• saying "yes" to everything
• putting your needs on hold
• procrastinating on important tasks
• watching too much news
• trying to be perfect
depression but not the kind that is life threatening needing psychiatric intervention, but the kind that lingers and follows you around for years on end just enough to taint your quality of life
Y'all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. I'm not your mother. I'm not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. I'm an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. Silence is not a resolution.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...
A. naiintindihan mo naman pero di mo matanggap.
B. naiintindihan mo kaya tinanggap mo na lang.
C. hindi mo maintindihan kaya napilitan ka na lang tanggapin.
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