Atinuke

Certified Scrum Master (CSM) || PM || Building with Curiosity

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@MrCharlesky Interested

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@MrCharlesky Interested

[Mr Charles (Remote Jobs) @MrCharlesky]

Millions of opportunities are sitting online, but being a +234 resident sometimes feels like we’re starting the game 9–0 behind.

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@GlobalEllah Interested

[Oluwadamilare Dauda, PhD @diamond_dre]

Ready for the World Cup. Viva Mexico.

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@diamond_dre Happy birthday babe. Cheers to many more years my love.

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@ThePMtribe I can't access your DM

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

Anonymous

Your mother-in-law just announced in the family group chat – that you're hosting 15 people for the holidays. She didn't ask. She announced. Then added everyone is excited to "just show up and relax."

Mother-in-Law: We'll arrive around noon! Don't worry about entertaining us, we'll just relax while you handle the kitchen.

You: I'm happy to host, but everyone needs to pitch in. I linked a sign-up sheet for groceries, cooking, and cleanup.

Mother-in-Law: Oh honey, you know the boys don't cook. Plus you always make it look so effortless! It's our tradition.

You: Tradition doesn't mean I do 100% of the work. The spreadsheet is in the chat.

Mother-in-Law: I don't understand why you're being so cold and corporate about family time. If it's such a burden to feed us, maybe we shouldn't come at all.

You: That's entirely up to you. The sheet closes Friday. If roles aren't filled, we won't be hosting this year.
The chat goes silent for two hours.

Then – three cousins claim dish duty. Your father-in-law takes the turkey.

The Aftermath: The moment you stopped absorbing the guilt, they found a way to contribute. Funny how that works.
The Insight: "You make it look effortless" is not a compliment. It's a strategy. Weaponized flattery and weaponized incompetence are twins – both designed to keep your hands in the sink and your mouth shut.
When you name the dynamic and set a real deadline, you force a real choice: contribute or miss out. Your home is not an all-inclusive resort. You are not the staff.

Stop letting "tradition" be the excuse for your exhaustion.

[Dunni @Dunni226245]

@kenkenlewu That’s really heartbreaking. Mental health struggles can be very complex, and it’s sad that she didn’t get the support she needed. I hope her family is able to take care of her now.

[Oluwadamilare Dauda, PhD @diamond_dre]

I am pleased to announce that I have recently accepted a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centro de Biotecnología Genómica, Instituto Politécnico Nacional @IPN_MX in Mexico.

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@Maziltundeednut 50,000

[Oluwadamilare Dauda, PhD @diamond_dre]

Dear friends,

It is finally PhinisheD!

Earlier today, I successfully passed my viva voce with minor corrections and can now say I am officially PhDone. It has been a long three-year journey, and I am deeply grateful that it has ended in praise.

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@osemagnum Amen

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@Zapierassistant I will

[Name cannot be blank @hackSultan]

Every round, someone amazing joins @SamuelOtigba + @Tunde_OD & @hackSultan to sponsor at least 5 laptops to folks in Nigeria who need it for their career.
It’s not just for people in tech.
This round, we have @TemidayoOniosun as our sponsor.

To apply, RT this, & check this 🧵

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@TosinOlugbenga I am interested

[Tosin Olugbenga @TosinOlugbenga]

A startup wants early tester for their product.

You will be paid to help them test and provide feedback.

All you need is a phone and internet access and sign an NDA agreement.

To qualify, RT and comment.

You will be contacted.

[Atinuke @tinndol]

@Chichi_Uchendu Roadmap

[Atinuke @tinndol]

It’s not just what AI models say, it’s how they think through a question.
I gave the same prompt to ChatGPT, Gemini, and DeepSeek, and their responses revealed just how differently each one reasons.
#ALX_AISK

[Atinuke @tinndol]

#ALX_AiSK took me into the world of deepfakes.