A Dom who lacks empathy isn't "strict" they're dangerous.
Empathy is the ability to care beyond your own perspective.
You don't need to personally experience someone pain to treat it with respect.
Power without empathy is just control.
Which leads to abuse and manipulation.
Being an experienced Dom means very little if you refuse to be accountable.
If you can't apologize, reflect or accept feedback then you're not demonstrating leadership. You're protecting your ego.
Accountability is what separates authority from control.
Put your ego aside.
taking out the days frustrations on you, leaving you sore and unable to walk.
"Poor thing, you should've expected this, I wasn't going to take it easy on you after such a long day."
the stinging pain as you sit down reminds you that you agreed to be used as they needed, whenever.
nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art.
eye contact. affectionate touch. deep conversations. holding hands. mutual support. hugging. dancing. watching movies together. laughing together. cuddles. ensuring each others safety.
i can go on and on about this its neverending.
OK YOU WANT VERY CANON TAKE .ᐣ have it.
i do think sukuna absolutely could be abusive to someone close to him but not in the typical human way people imagine when they hear “abusive.” he doesn’t strike me as the type to do all the manipulative mind games out of insecurity, jealousy or fear of abandonment because honestly he’s too self assured and arrogant for that. he doesn’t need validation, doesn’t crave reassurance and definitely isn’t the type to beg someone to stay.
with sukuna it would come more from his nature itself. he is selfish, cruel, violent and has little to no regard for other people’s comfort, boundaries or feelings. if someone was close to him, i think he’d simply expect them to accept every ugly part of him without complaint. his worldview is very much “i do as i please” and anyone around him either tolerates that or suffers because of it.
so would he be the kind of abusive where he sits there plotting emotional manipulation tactics? probably not. he’s not subtle or emotionally needy enough for that. but would being close to him realistically be unhealthy, intimidating and potentially dangerous because of his lack of empathy, entitlement and dominance? absolutely.
i think that’s what makes him interesting honestly. he may not be “that kind” of evil, but he is still fundamentally someone whose idea of closeness would be warped by the fact he simply does not function like a normal person emotionally. amen.
Aftercare isn't just for after scenes. It's for anything.
Aftercare is really about nervous system care.
Vulnerability can come from simply life. Work, family, health issues and etc.
Dynamic deepens when aftercare isn't treated like an event but becomes part of the dynamic.
Since all the t dick lovers have gathered here how do we feel about t4t t dick frotting or t dick slipping inside on accident and thrusting against it just to feel the warmth
my favorite placement for mating bites is always going to be the back of the neck bc there’s something sooo hot abt an alpha pinning and omega down with his body and biting him from behind, it’s just incredibly feral in nature i love it
i like piss in a piss on me kinda way, but also in a lock my bathroom door and hold me down, pressing on my bladder until im a leaky pissy mess all over you
Non-sexual dominance 🖤
“Come here darling”
“Let me help you”
“Drink your water, love”
“Be careful”
“Lay down with me, sweetheart”
“Sit on my lap, princess”
“Hold my hand while we’re out”
“Come cuddle”
“Come lay on my laps so you can sleep”
#Skfs Megumi, who just broke up, goes to his bsf house to complain, and maybe drink, but Yuji is not there and here's his older brother, who just saw alcohol in Megumi's hands going all "...you can stay...come vent to me—" because he doesn't mind free alcohol if it means
#skfs omegaverse
Sukuna was wakened by a soft, warm pressure against his chin, a gentle, rhythmic nuzzling. A low, contented purr vibrated through the body pressed against his. The air was thick and sweet like honeyed nectar. It was Megumi’s scent, but richer. Deeper.