champagne lifestyle on a lemonade budget. gives great advice, never follows it. au pire, im queer. ray of fucking sunshine / ☉ aquarius ↑ virgo ☾ gemini
today is the 4th anniversary of when i decided to randomly go to Brussels then Amsterdam alone for a weekend w/ pretty much nothing. this tweet is in remembrance of when I had no handle on my bpd and adhd and did dumb things for fun. that was a really good trip but it was stupid.
One of the most profound things I read in my original journey to ADHD diagnosis was what Dr. Ned Hallowell calls “the cough drop sign” in the book, Driven To Distraction.
I’d never felt more seen before reading this quote.
It comes from one of Hallowell’s ADHD patients:
@venomvraimentpv des anciens de buzzfeed, ils ont une chaînes yt assez connus. et un des gars his whole thing was that he was a wife guy, always talking bout his wife etc et turns out il l'a trompé avec une meuf avec qui il bossait. basiquement.
have I watched the try guys in the last five years? no. am I fully invested and personally very hurt by ned cheating on the beautiful lovely ariel, his wife and mother of his children? yes absolutely.
my new thing at work is to binge d20's a court of fey and flowers and the way it has moved me to tears more than once while also making me laugh so hard my cheeks hurt? 👌