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my thing with avoidants is that they don’t isolate themselves from potential romantic relationships
they actively seek new people to start romantic relationships with and then chicken out
loser vibes
Sometimes people have desire for you but don’t have the capacity of what it takes to maintain you. Lack of capacity is not the lack of desire. You can be grateful but still require more.
of course, they’re interesting. you like them. you want to get to know them. you want them. but did you consider what you want to give, provide, what capacity you have? like do you think about what they deserve? and can you provide that?