Don’t try to make yourself into her ideal person. Like screw that, if she doesn’t like you for you then she’s not worth the trouble in the future, honestly.
God is called the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. We talk a lot about God doing a new thing, but we don’t hear much about the end, the omega. But just as God opens a door, sometimes He will close a door. He’ll bring things to an end.