Thank you, but don't bother. I will definitely be marrying a man who isn't intimidated by my belief that girls and women deserve equal rights and opportunities which is feminism.
I sincerely wish your younger cousins all the best. May they find the non-feminists you want for them, and may everyone be happy with the lives they choose. That is what matters most.
Love and light.
So excited to bring HONEY & SPICE to the big screen! A dream come true to work with the best to ever do it in the romcom biz ! I have been keeping this a secret for some time but it has been sweet having this treasure for myself for a little while. Team KiKai let's go!🍯🌶🖤
Bullied in real life and online. Digital violence is a topic we must discuss. The UN is collecting data on such acts. Profiles now have an orange color! Women face daily challenges from men, yet they don’t see the need for feminism to end.
#orangetheworld is the hashtag to end violence against women when we discuss the other side of AI. Men can’t have a dialogue without causing violence. Show your support by orange-ing your profiles; it’s as if you’re unaware of this UN initiative.
You see how, despite strong evidence of defilement, Mr. Ogbuja and his son walk free today. Let me rephrase cause Victor Ogbuja was never tried.
Despite the video evidence Ochanya made before she died, and despite the medical reports showing tears in her vagina and bladder, among other injuries, the court still acquitted Mr. Ogbuja.
This is not necessarily because the judiciary is corrupt. It is because the law sets out a strict checklist of elements that must be proven to convict a person of an offence.
So, for instance, if there was no DNA sample of the accused swabbed from her privates, no witness statement, or other corroborating evidence, then even if it’s clear that a räpe occurred, it may still be impossible to legally tie the act to the accused.
But that’s not even the main point I want to make.
What I want to address is allegations and how we treat them. Time and again, when men are accused of räpe and the courts do not convict them, society turns around to brand the women as false räpe accusers. But as we see in cases like this, the accusation may not be false, it just could not be proven.
So, whenever there’s a rąpe case and the accused is discharged, please don’t rush to bully or shame the victim. Crimes, especially sexual crimes, are hard to prove. The burden of proof lies on the prosecution. And the truth is, no one who has just been räped immediately knows what to do. They may not think to rush to a hospital for a DNA swab, they may have no eyewitness and even something as simple as taking a bath can destroy crucial evidence.
Heck, even if a judge witnessed the act himself, he is bound to decide strictly on the evidence presented before him.
So, remember, not every allegation that fails in court is false.
Shalom!
This is wrong in every respect and in many respects, borders on modern slavery. You must pay a workman his wages! It doesn’t matter if you want to maintain fiscal discipline or if he was appointed by a different regime, you just must pay for legitimate work done!
🙏🏾🤗💕 Thank you all for the love, support, and even the vexing (lol) for SMART MONEY WOMAN Season 2 (YouTube) !!!! Ya’ll want a Season 3 perhaps?! lol ✨
From someone who healed out of co-dependency: I don’t require external validation to feel good. My thoughts aren’t a prison. Seldom bored because I find genuine joy in my hobbies. I like myself a lot, not everyone deserves to be in my company.