Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
i’m learning to pray about everything fr. my attitude, my emotions, my overthinking, my healing, my habits, the people i attract, my lack of motivation sometimes… all of it. i give it to God because i know i can’t carry everything on my own.
cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
The devil really wasted attacks on you because after all the betrayal, delays, heartbreak, and warfare. You still love God, still survived, and still did not lose your mind completely. 😭
Girl to girl: God is waiting on you to love yourself correctly. For you to finally realize everything you need he’s already put within you and to stop fighting yourself while he is trying to restore you. He is within you you will NOT fall.