Tshepi💥

Every situation is temporary learn to be strong all the time for the is nothing permanent in life

[her🎀 @iam_dijah5]

the hardest thing I've learned this year is that you can never force someone to communicate and work things out. you can't beg someone to see that you're worth fighting for and i stand by that now

[Ali🌹 @_omalichaa]

Sometimes you just have to tell people LOOK i love you & i'll probably always love you, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me & because of that I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, you can keep doing exactly what you want to do & how you want to do it, you just can't do it with me anymore.

[Kush @kush_147]

There's the delayed regret after realizing you did all that emotional labour for someone who didn't even acknowledge the harm they did to you

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

fortunately, i do give up on people. you can't continuously drain me, disappoint me, and disrespect me while expecting me to keep being kind.

[NollyClips @nollyclips28]

@Joyoky1 Very true. Anger can make people focus on one bad moment and completely forget years of love, kindness and good memories.

That’s why it’s important not to make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

It is crazy how a single moment of misunderstanding can become so toxic that it makes you forget the thousands of lovely moments you have spent together with someone. Anger has a terrible way of rewriting history.

[Kéne @AtuanyaKene]

There’s a level of disrespect that permanently changes how soft I can be with you.

[Kush @kush_147]

Some people never loved you. They loved how available, understanding, and forgiving you were

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would have already.

[Sameer @oosafarnama]

Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.

[Kush @kush_147]

It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity

[Olivia @Olivia0945]

@kush_147 Don’t bleed on people who didn’t cut you. Heal quietly and show up whole.

[JayT @JayT0147]

@hy_wemmy @iky_fwjett Love should never require you to disappear—because what’s the point of being chosen if you stop being you?

[Fiona Smith @nidisdnikki]

@hy_wemmy When you lose yourself in the name of love or commitment, you aren't actually building a healthy foundation—you are often building one on self-sacrifice that eventually leads to burnout or resentment.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s to never make huge life -altering sacrifices in relationships that leaves you with nothing of yourself.

[𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖙𝖊𝖉 @6looted]

It’s easy for people to love you when life is good. But having people who stay when you’re struggling, difficult, hurting, or wrong… those are your actual people. Being truly loved means being loved even when it’s inconvenient.

[—𝙺𝚊𝙼𝚊𝚕𝚞𝚕𝚎𝚔𝚊🌸 @Sizi_phiwe]

At the end of the day, you gotta pull up your big girl panties and handle it. No point in crying or venting.. nobody's coming to save you, and honestly, nobody cares but you.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

I don't beg anybody to be solid with me. Either you are or you're not, and I'll adjust accordingly. Loyalty isn't something you force; it's something people either have or they don't.

[Chymamusique @Chymamusique]

As a man you can’t want a woman to submit to you while you have no direction . You can’t lead while you don’t know what you want or where you’re intending to go

[𝓢𝓱𝓪𝔂𝔂𝔂 🧚🏾‍♀️✨✨ @_iamhershayyy]

Go where you’re appreciated and respected because settling where you’re unheard, unseen, and unloved will leave you emotionally exhausted💯💯💯