I genuinely cannot be in community with people who struggle to apologise when they hurt someone intentionally or not. I just think it’s pathetic. Regardless of if it’s pride or shame, having to force an apology or empathy out of a grown adult is a major red flag.
Outside of performatively holding people “accountable” online, twt users talk like they want mfs to kill themselves on camera as penance like where does this end up for you people im genuinely curious
@goreybutch got misgendered at the haunted house by one of the clowns 💀 dressed like a dude, wore my binder - spoke no words to her. feels like defeat when I walk out of my home sometimes.
start blocking people before they have a chance to cause issues for you. stop letting people follow you if you see them in discourse often or harassing others because one day they'll harass you too. a community built off toxic people is about as stable as a house of cards.