Our cancer patients deserve more than delays and red tape. SHA must step up with faster, more compassionate care. We can and must do better as a nation #SHAmustWork4Cancer#SHALazimaiWork
White smoke! The 133 Cardinal electors gathered in the Vatican’s Sistine Chapel have elected the new Pope. He will appear soon at the central window of St. Peter’s Basilica.
Q3. He left our home to buy our baby some diapers. Came home 2 hours later, high, glitter all over his face, smelling like catfish with NO diapers. I know what this is, so I ask about the diapers. He says he left them in the car. He staggered to the car, got in and drove off. He left his phone behind, another woman thanked him for the diapers, BUT she texted that the diapers were too big, the baby needs size 1. (Newborn). The number seemed REAL familiar so I call her. His mistress is the woman he hired to design our wedding invitations. We paid her extra to mail them. My wedding was basically empty, the people who showed up came because I called them. She never sent the invites. We argued. He came home the following morning to get his phone. I confronted him about his newborn. Him: “I have you and I have a new baby. Y’all need to cut the drama before y’all both lose me. I ain’t with this cat fight sh!t.” There was a str!pper dipped in glitter, sitting in the front seat. He has 2 SideChicks; I got the ring last year, but I’m at the bottom of his list. I love this man and I don’t want to lose him for good. What to do to keep him home? I thought marriage would do the trick. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q4. I married Claudia 4 years ago and me and my teen sons moved in with her. Two years in, Claudia opened her salon and I fell in love with someone else. I even f—cked my other female in our home because I was done with Claudia (and I was showing my sons how to handle these females when they get uppity and try to run things.) I filed for divorce. I’ve done renovations to the home, and I fully expected to get half of the house’s market worth, and/or live there with my two sons. My lawyer discovered the house is in Claudia’s mother’s name. And her mother evicted me and my sons. I’m struggling to cancel my divorce proceedings but Claudia has stopped communicating with me. She doesn’t come home when I’m here. Me and my sons will be homeless if she doesn’t agree to accept my apology, go to therapy and fix our marriage. Most importantly I don’t have rights to the property and I married her to get that. SHE SCAMMED ME; she ain’t a homeowner. I’m in a tough spot. Help. #SBCCHAT
Q1. I told my girlfriend (dated her for 1 year) to let me try a 3-sum for the New Year. She said no. I told her we’re doing it, or I’ll leave. Her: “Do what you need to do.” She won’t find nobody as good as me; we BOTH know this. I turn up the pressure and start packing my things. (I had nowhere to go; I wanted her to think about her life without me.) I had my female friend/SideChick bring her truck to help move my things into “storage.”Girlfriend sees my other female and just sits there looking like she’s about to cry. I carry the last box to the truck and girlfriend runs up to me—to give me my toothbrush. Her: “Y’all take care.” My SideChick lives in a 2-bedroom apartment with roommates and I can’t stay with her. I don’t have a storage. I need to get back home with my main, but she changed the locks and is not responding. Legal Aid said I had tenant rights until I moved myself out. Help me y’all. #SBCCHAT
Q4. My husband met my wh0re cousin first, but after a few years of running back and forth between us, he came to his senses and married me last summer. There’s a popular YouTube channel that publishes police bodycam footage of arrests. Why did I see my wh0re cousin get arrested for shoplifting at Target? I’m laughing my ass off when she begs police to let them call her boyfriend before they take her to jail. Why I see my husband race to Target to get her purse, etc., and he told the cops that she was his girlfriend? He asked about her bail. She gets emotional when the female officer pats her down and she screams “I’m pregnant take these cuffs off me.” I see my husband, gentle and concerned, calling her “baby.” The video was from July. In July, he took $500 out our joint account (her bail money?). They don’t know I know. What to do now? (Ps., I took screenshots from the video just in case it’s deleted. I’ve also found her arrest report.) I can’t look like the loser in this situation; I’m the WIFE. Help. #SBCCHAT
Q2. I made a mistake. I clean AirBNBs and I had a house on my monthly cleaning schedule that was never occupied. (An investment property). Lately, I enter the house, dust a little and sleep until my next assignment. I tried to impress a woman I met at the club. I brought her to the property. We were in bed when the police entered, guns drawn. We were arrested for breaking and entering. I was fired. More important than that, my girlfriend, who just had our baby last month, found out. I told her I robbed the house to buy diapers. The police report stated I was nude, engaging in s3xual activity with a female suspect and that we tripped the (after hours) silent alarm in the master bedroom. My babymomma put me out. I want to complete my unfinished business 👅 with ole girl and I want my family back. How do I achieve both? Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q1. I show up for everybody’s events, always, gifts in hand. My wedding is in February. I charged friends and family $250 cover charge (per person) to attend our ceremony, plus proof of a purchased item from our gift registry. No one paid, no one RSVP’d. I was livid! I told my fiancé let’s postpone the wedding until our family come up with money. He agreed to postpone it, “forever,” and has ghosted me. What did I do wrong? How to get him to come back? Since people are so excited about us getting married, I thought they wouldn’t mind paying for our show. Right? #SBCCHAT
Today at the Royal Castle Hotel in Mombasa, we are diving deep into Mizizi III! By embracing curiosity,uncovering lost possibilities and gaining fresh perspectives. This journey is about more than just surviving—it's about thriving and reimagining the future. #MentaHealthInCancer
Holding space isn't easy. When do you hold space, and where do you draw the line if you can't? We're in Kilifi at Kibaoni Social Hall for our 12th Mizizi Workshop of the year, in collaboration with Kilifi County Referral Hospital Palliative Care.
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“Cancer is a Robber , it robbed me of joy, friends and family “ - As shared by a participant in our Kiambu Mizizi workshop. We believe Cancer doesn’t have to define you, join our workshops to reclaim your story after Cancer . @AORTIC_AFRICA#MentaHealthInCancer#KiambuMizizi