If I’m dating you and feel unseen or emotionally neglected by you, I’ll immediately think like wow that sucks but also, do I want to have a kid with this person? Will they make my possible future child feel unseen and emotionally neglected as well? That’s enough for me.
my mom once told me "waiting for someone to act correctly is a disrespect to yourself. you're compromising your worth just because someone can't fully afford it."
idk about y’all but I be thanking God for the smallest things. even when it comes down to just being able to see a new day everyday. one of the most underrated blessings is seeing a new day. it’s so normal for us to think we’re going to just wake up the next day.
PLEASE READ SLOWLY:
If someone is falling behind in life, you don't have to remind them. Believe me, they already know. If someone is unhealthy, they know. If someone is struggling in their relationships, with money, with self-image, they know.
Long term relationships really come with a lot of forgiveness..... don’t think you about have 3+ perfect years with someone. We all have flaws and toxic traits so find someone you can grow and become better with.
stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy.
My social battery is lowwww. I don’t really have the desire to be around a lot of people. Especially if it’s not feeding my spirit or great good in some type of way.
Hanging out with people and getting my energy/life force sucked away is at the bottom of my list of things to do