Corporate life will teach you that knowing the job is only half the battle.
The real skill is staying calm in meetings, reading the room, managing ego, receiving vague feedback, and not replying emails with your real thoughts.
If your partner keeps doubting your loyalty after you've shown them nothing but honesty, it's not because of you. It's because they can't trust themselves. They know exactly what they are doing behind your back, and they assume you're just like them.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
You cannot & you should not "buy" your wife.
Your wife must earn her place in your life.
Therefore, your gf must invest in, & sacrifice for you.
While you invest in, & sacrifice for the future of both of you.
Women are more loyal to their sacrifices, they don't love you.
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The real cheat code in life? Finding a significant other who's unproblematic, insanely attractive to you, and fully committed to doing life together with you. Everything else just falls into place.
The phone you're using now, you were once very anxious about getting it. How long did the excitement last after you got it?
Exactly.
That is how it is with everything you're anxious about. When you get it, epiphany hits. "So this is it?"