My favorite form of intimacy has always been asking questions, not to pry, but to understand the architecture of someone's inner world. The way they think. The way they feel. The way their past still echoes in their present. There's a depth in people that never shows unless someone asks the kind of questions that require honesty instead of performance.
All of this should always be FOR YOU and no one else. You learn to be a decent human being alone, with other people and not necessarily to experience a relationship — relationships are better with decent people, people who have done healing and continue to be better people
One thing for sure
My next partner will get the most healed version on me
Nothing but therapy and strengthening my faith these past 6 months and I feel like I’m ready to give this wonderful human a chance hey..🙇🏽♀️
I’ve been in bed the whole day and I’m having such a great time. I remember when I used to be in bed for days because I was depressed. It really does get better.
Maybe not love at first sight- but an instant magnetic pull that confirms that the connection can only grow stronger from that point and that you will, over time and inevitably, come to love that person for a lifetime.