Not just women. When someone who used to be close and chatty suddenly starts replying late consistently, they’re trying to tire you out until you return the energy and stop texting.
They do this because they’re not bold enough to say they’re no longer interested, so they make you feel like a disturbance instead.
I uploaded my CV to ChatGPT, but instead of asking it to rewrite anything, I asked it 3 questions that completely shifted how I looked at my career.
You can do that, but you’re barely scratching the surface of what it can help you uncover.
These are the 3 questions I asked:
Personally, one of the worst feelings is watching the one person you genuinely enjoy talking to slowly become distant shorter replies, less effort, less interest. You can feel the connection fading before either of you even says it, and honestly, that hurts.
Do you know how stupid Nigerian Men have to be in general ?
That even in imagination and prayers, women would rather have Men be the ones to have money instead..
Like guy.. Men stupidity pay them pass their own personal success.
Nah wait.. I don’t think you guys get it yet..
I mean, do you know how foolish the male gender have to be…
For grown Women to be imagining wealth/praying for success… And even in that prayer/imagination, it’s for a Man around them to have the money coz our mumu sure for them gaaaaan!
Broo!
It's a human thing, not a female thing. It happens in different variations.
You show interest in someone and keep showing up while they keep dismissing you and acting indifferent. The day you stop, epiphany hits them that you were genuinely in love with them they could have actually treated you better. They might try to reach out snd do better, but sometimes, it is too late. They get to live with the pain because compared to other alternatives, you were a lot better.
Other occasions, you hurt someone you love and they forgive you and you do it again. A person's grace has limit. When they pull away, you suddenly realize you could have done better. You could even fix the problem and be a better person, but you've lost them. You would wish they gave you another chance but a heart gone, is gone forever. Now you have to live with the guilt.
Therr are other variations of this. Humans are complicated, but actions have consequences.