Honestly, women are like babies, sometimes they think they know what's best for them but they don't. You don't expect a child to tell you how to treat them do you?.
If you leave some women especially the broke and entitled ones, they'll turn you into a foot mat. That's why it is important to treat a woman how they're supposed to be treated rather than how they want to be treated.
Shalom.
So last Friday, a lady on the whatsapp group chat I'm on, sent me a DM. She was complaining that her boyfriend behave childish.
Then I asked her; "How do you mean he behaves complains a lot?"
She said; "He talks about everything & complains a lot. At least he should learn to overlook somethings".
I asked; "But you believe communication is vital in every relationship, no?"
"Yes! Communication is essential but the complain is too much", she said.
Then I went on to ask; "Tell me one thing he complained about that got you pissed off".
"He wants me to cut ties with my male friends. Friends I've known before I met him". She said.
I said; "He's not the issue, โ You are the issue, and one thing I know most women for; is that they are stubborn and they won't listen until their boyfriend mirrors their behavior."
She said; "I beg your pardon?".๐คจ๐คจ
Me: "Lol...don't beg my pardon oo, you chatted me up because you needed an advice. And with the way you're now sounding, I don't think you'd want to listen to what I have to say. Of course most women don't listen".๐๐
Her: "Okay, tell me what you have to say"
Me: "Let's imagine your boyfriend starts having other girls as friends, and on his birthday, one of the girls gifted him, not just cheap gifts, she bought PS5 for your boyfriend, something you have never done for him, & she also gifted him some designer footwears. Then he chats them up when you're with him & you notice he's smiling while texting her. And when you ask him, who he's chatting with, then he smiles at you and said he's chatting with the girl who bought him PS5. Then you complain and ask him to limit or cut ties with her, then he told you "I knew these girl before I met you!", how would you feel?? โ Be honest with me??
Since then till now, she left me unread and didn't reply.๐๐๐
I knew she got the message!
Women???๐๐๐คญ๐คญ๐คญ๐คญ
Just mirror their behavior, that's all.
@EmmanuelUket5@instablog9ja One talk am na. She been want chocolate i no sabi how much so i send am 1500. O boy her reply been vex me i tell am sharp sharp make she return am. She they mad self