I don't mind the expression "Fake it til you make it" but it rubs some people the wrong way. The word "fake" conjures up impressions of fraudulent, misleading, and dishonest.
If this bugs you, I suggest using "Believe it til you achieve it". Same idea, different words.
My son has autism. He loves video games. He has been playing Spiderman Ps4 for the last month. He's completed it back to front.
He said to me today he looks up to Spiderman. Why?
"Because when he gets knocked down, he always gets up again just like me."
Video games change lives.
Give yourself a little credit. I tend to be extremely hard on myself and sometimes not the nicest to myself. (Just being honest).Today let’s show kindness to ourselves and let that minded overflow to others.