Women will never understand the simple joy men get from just existing.
A man can arrive in a new city, walk around for hours, explore random streets, observe people, and be completely fucking content.
Then a woman joins.
Now there needs to be an agenda.
Cafe. Restaurant. Shopping. Tourist spot. Photos.
Next location.
Something always has to be happening.
Meanwhile, a man can grab a good drink, sit in the town square for three hours, watch the world move around him, and think:
"Yeah. This is f*cking nice."
No itinerary. No entertainment. No destination.
Just existing without needing existence to entertain you.
Being a man is peaceful.
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@sharghzadeh Secondly, what if your ancestors came down riding from the Caucasus or Azerbaijan with qizilbash and instead of claiming your lineage to the sunni Persians prior to the safvids, your belonged to those to oppressed and forced converted them??????
@sharghzadeh Brother, with due respect , if we go along with your logic then majority of present Muslims can relate to the sahaba or celebrate their achievements if we don't have ancestry belonging to the gulf
I'm a cardiologist. Some of the most exhausted hearts I see belong to people with no blockages at all.
They are replaying a conversation from 2019. Rehearsing a disaster that hasn't happened. Demanding certainty from a life that never offered any.
The Japanese have a phrase: shikata ga nai.
"It cannot be helped."
It isn't surrender. It's refusing to spend your strength fighting what can't be changed, so you have some left for what can.
One question does most of the work:
Can I do something about this right now?
If yes, take one step. Not the whole solution. One step.
If no, put it down.
The past can't be edited. The future can't be guaranteed. Your body pays for every hour you spend in either one.
Overthinking rarely comes from having too many problems. It comes from replaying every mistake, controlling every outcome, and demanding answers life was never going to give you.
Do what you can.
Release what you can't.
Some things cannot be changed. Peace starts the moment you stop arguing with them.
Shikata ga nai.
@sabizak However, since following U on twitter , I've come to see a "vicious" and contemptuous side to your personality a raging feminist stereotyp, not the serene individual I see the videos.
Finding it difficult to reconcile both images
@sabizak I always found U to be an educated, sophicated , well spoken , well red modern representation of a cosmopolitan Pakistan woman from the 90s early 2000s , like marina khan in her dramas.
In comparison to those informed by traditional Islamic culture, the Western convert to Islam is ineluctably prone to throw you under the bus/ fail to be there for you when it matters / make sure to (for the most part non-verbally) let you know that you are utterly dispensable to him. This disloyalty, failure to sacrifice for "friends", and predisposition to fall short of chivalry is endemic to the Western convert.
As with almost anything, there are indeed a small number of exceptions ...
But most need to learn the hard way, by tasting the bitterness of simply facing up to this degraded trait within themselves, residue of their Western cultural backdrop, which they had imagined 'neutral.' I have heard so many Western converts voicing their sense of uniquely possessing an Islam 'untainted by culture.' And this is nothing short of a delusion.
Get a haircut every 2 weeks to stay sharp, wait 5 secs before answering the phone to control the rhythm, always arrive 15 mins early, stay away from free lunches, never talk about people who aren't in the room, and when anger rises, wait 10 mins before reacting. These habits may look rigid, but they're the hidden discipline of the elite.