Ladies, warm him up by #fingering his butthole with a lubed-up finger. Let him get used to the sensation of you being inside him. Slowly work up to 2 (or 3) fingers if and when he feels comfortable. You donβt need to move your fingers too much β let him get used to the stretch.π
Make sure he knows itβs a no-judgment zone. Youβre having #strapon#sex with him. There should be zero judgment. If he knows that youβre not sitting there thinking badly of him for liking it or making certain sounds, heβll be able to relax more and heβll have a much better timeπ