Even him admitting relief that the mother wasn't persuaded by wishes of medical transition in adolescence because he would've changed his mind. Amerimutts are culturally struggling in ways others can't fathom and that culture is exported in the speed others can't catch up with
So much of data gets obscured from TRA lingo that, if you're not looking behind the veil, you won't see meaningful input - a heterosexual couple with neglect trauma, the female being a stunted gamer (rarer), the autistic intersex male struggling medically with an intersex—
ppl also forget that neglect can be in one specific area, like i was medically neglected but my mom helicoptered in other areas. my partner was overall neglected and now struggles with attention span issues and to hold interest in anything besides video games bc +
—mother who added onto the confusion with selective behavioral/gender monitoring, improperly dealing with the child's neurodivergence and hygiene. The family being neglectful of their own disabilities due to financial struggle. All that made into a word salad by affirming lingo.
@burnyourbinder I don't think an absent drive is possible, but it might be a topic too time and thought consuming to scratch. At worst, a wound you end up scratching too much, that might change too many things
@burnyourbinder Understood. I have some questions about sexual signaling too. Are you following the local cultural pattern of acquiring a "good spouse" because being GNC lessens the chances in the dating pool? If GNC is something you desire at all, but prioritize mate attraction
@thenewjeans@burnyourbinder Guess i can't empathize with the "uncritical middle" between GCs and theistic converts. It's like holding onto your trans beliefs of aesthetics and roles but letting time pass for you to surrender eventually. I genuinely thought anxieties were tied to forced conformity
@burnyourbinder I understand subculture non-conformity, but regarding styling it seems intentionally gendered. Guess i'm asking is what prompts one to not look intentionally GNC (like the first ver.), despite being female. Especially when alt styles are very GNC, from colors to silhouettes
The only reason that Islam in the 20th and 21st century has taken on radical anti-imperialist themes is because it’s practiced in a region that has constantly been under siege
The sexes are not inventions for categorising humans, they are the two anisogamous reproductive strategies we observed and named, and evolved long before we did. Trying to make this a fight about your judgement of other people's bodies is a red herring and bigoted.